GUIDELINES FOR SPIRITUAL ADVISORS in SUPPORTIVE BUDDHA NAME CHANTING:
RULES IN SUPPORTIVE BUDDHA NAME CHANTING:
1. The
SPIRITUAL ADVISOR remind the patient of the suffering of the Saha world and the
joys of the Sukhavati to help strengthen his or her vow to be reborn into
there.
The spiritual advisor should also enumerate and praise the
patient’s good deeds, merits, and virtues.
This will help the patient to be happy and free of doubts,
certain that when the time comes to die, he or she will, thanks to his or her
good deeds, vow, and practice, be reborn into the Western Pure Land of Ultimate
Bliss.
2. Remind
the dying person to cease thinking of WEALTH and PROPERTY, as well as
ATTACHMENTS to family and friends.
3. If the
patient has written a will so much the better, but if not, it is best to
counsel against writing one at this time.
3.The advisor can also advise everyone to refrain from
GOSSIP and DISTRACTING conversations as they could rekindle the patient’s
attachment to this world, which is detrimental to the patient’s desired
rebirth.
4. When
relatives and friends come to visit, they should be discouraged from becoming
emotional in the patient’s presence.
If they wish to help, they can stand to the side and chant “
NAMO AMITABHA BUDDHA” aloud.
Explain to the visitors that CRYING at this time could
distract the patient from the desired rebirth in the Sukhavati, and result in
the patient being subjected to much SUFFERING.
5. The
patient should be counseled to practice generosity and give away personal
effects to those who need them.
Also, the patient can purchase Buddha images, sutras, and
other Buddhist materials, and request that they also be given away.
This will help the patient to increase his or her merits and
reduce bad karma, thus facilitating a good rebirth.
The good advisor should keep these general guidelines in
mind, but be ready to improvise according to the situation.
***CONDUCTING SUPPORTIVE BUDDHA NAME CHANTING:
Supportive chanting by family members and Dharma friends is
crucial when a patient is on the verge of death because, at that time, he or
she is weak both mentally and physically.
In such trying circumstances, it becomes increasingly
difficult to focus on chanting “Namo Amitabha Buddha.”
-This is why SUPPORTIVE BUDDHA NAME CHANTING is so
important.
GUIDELINES FOR CONDUCTING SUPPORTIVE BUDDHA NAME CHANTING:
1. To help
focus the patient’s thoughts, respectfully place a statue or picture of the
standing Amitabha Buddha in front of the patient where it can be easily seen.
Place a container of clean water in front of this image and
some fresh flowers in a vase near it. Lightly scented incense, or even a
smokeless variety, may be burned. (A strong fragrance or excessive smoke might
cause the patient to have difficulty in breathing.)
2. Those who
come to practice supportive chanting should remember that the patient, who is
in a weakened state, requires adequate fresh air. If too many people are in the
room at one time, the patient may have difficulty breathing and become agitated,
resulting in more harm than good.
Also, people should pre-arrange their chanting time and
silently take turns, so that the chanting can continue uninterrupted. Each
session can last about an hour.
3. According
to Master Yin Guang, the thirteenth patriarch of the Pure Land school, the
short chanting form of “Amitabha Buddha” should be used, so that the patient
can easily register this name in the most subtle consciousness, at a time when
both mind and body are very weak.
It would be wise to ask the patient which is preferred—
“Amitabha Buddha” or “Namo Amitabha buddha.”
In this way, the patient can comfortably and silently chant
along with the group.
To go counter to the patient’s likes and habits may destroy
his or her concentration.
People should not chant too loudly so as not to expend too
much energy and shorten the time they can chant.
On the other hand, they should not chant in too low a voice
or the sound might not register in the patient’s mind.
Also, they should not speak to one another while in the
room.
Chanting should neither be overly loud or soft, slow or
fast.
Each utterance should be clear and distinct, so that it can
be heard clearly and penetrate deep into the patient’s consciousness.
One caveat: if the patient is too weak or is in coma, he may
have difficulty hearing the chanting.
In such a case, someone should chant close to the patient’s
ear to help the patient to maintain a clear, steady mind.
4.With regard to instruments, it is generally better to use
the small hand bell with its clear, limpid sound, as it can help the patient
develop a pure and calm mind.
However, this may not apply in all cases. If possible, it is
best to ask the patient in advance what is preferred.
If some details do
not suit the patient, we should adapt to the circumstances and be flexible.
AFTER THE PATIENT DIES:
1. Relatives
should not cry in the presence of the patient immediately before and after the
death.
Doing so can cause the dying patient to develop thoughts of
attachment which can prevent the much sought rebirth and resultant liberation.
2. It is
vitally important not to touch or move the body of the deceased person.
Thus, people should wait at least twelve hours, and
preferably twenty- four, before washing and dressing the body.
3. Family
and friends should concentrate on chanting in all earnestness and without
crying for at least twelve hours.
This is to allow the patient’s most subtle consciousness
adequate time to leave the body.
If, during this
period, anyone touches the body or cries, the deceased may still experience
feelings of pain, sadness, anger, or self-pity, and sink again into the realms
of suffering.
4. During
the minimum twelve-hour period (twenty-four hours is preferable), if people can
remain chanting near the deceased, so much the better.
Except for chanting, nothing should be done.
5. Funeral
arrangements should be simple and modest, without unnecessary expenses.
Only vegetarian food should be provided for serving meat or
fish will burden the departed with more karmic obstacles, making liberation
that much more difficult.
It is important to
remember that even those who have been already been reborn into the Sukhavati
may still be affected by the behavior of family and friends acting on behalf of
the deceased.
LIVING WILL
To my family and all those concerned with my care: I, , of
being of sound mind, make this statement as a directive to
be followed if for any reason I become unable to participate in decisions
regarding my medical care.
Upon my death and transition into the next life, I do not
wish to be reborn into the ghost kingdom or the animal kingdom. I do not wish
to suffer.
Instead, I wish to
follow Amitabha Buddha and to arrive at his Western Pure Land of Ultimate
Bliss.
To all my family and
friends, I wish to ask for your assistance so that I may not suffer, but instead remain calm and peaceful to prepare
for my arrival to the Western Pure Land.
In the event that I should suffer from a terminal illness to
the extent that doctors foresee no possible recovery, I ask that no medical
treatment be undertaken.
Should I already be in the hospital at this point, I wish to
be checked out and brought back home.
Please notify my assigned family member or friend at telephone
number(s) and
Once home, please position me in
the most comfortable, natural position in which I may rest. The assigned family
member or friend will lead others in chanting “AMITABHA BUDDHA.”
Should I decline to the point where I lose consciousness and
am no longer aware of my surroundings, the assigned family member or friend
shall have full authority in making any decisions regarding my well-being.
If this person cannot be contacted, please find a Buddhist
master or Buddhist believer to aid in the chanting of “Amitabha buddha” until
the assigned person can be reached.
***Within twenty-four hours prior to and after my death, I
would like to ask my friends and family to comply with the following:
1. Do not
touch or move my body or even my bed.
2. Do not
change my clothing.
3. Do not
place dry ice or other substances on my body. Sandalwood incense may be burned
to if there is any odor.
4. Do not let a breeze to blow directly
onto my body.
5. Do not
allow the scent of alcohol, onion, scallion, garlic, or chives to enter the
room.
6. Do not
smoke, cry, or talk in the room.
My purpose for asking this is to create an atmosphere in
which I may remain calm and at peace. The only sound I wish to hear is “Amitabha
buddha,” so that he may escort me to Sukhavati
If I am at home upon my death, my family should take turns
chanting “Amitabha buddha” for eight to twenty-four hours.
At this point, I am ready to be moved, washed, and dressed.
This period of chanting is the best time to assist me to be
calm and peaceful.
All funeral arrangements can be set up afterwards.
If I should pass away in the hospital, please follow
hospital policy and chant as much as is allowed.
During my terminal illness and within forty-nine days after
my death, all family members should adopt a vegetarian diet.
I do not wish for any
killing to be associated with my death.
All funeral offerings
must be vegetarian.
The use of alcohol is
strictly prohibited.
Funeral arrangements should be kept simple and proper
Buddhist etiquette should be followed.
I do not wish for any unnecessary excess.
**Within forty-nine days following my death, I sincerely ask
my family members and friends to seek my rebirth into the Pure Land, and to
perform good deeds such as giving offerings to the Three Jewels of the Buddha,
Dharma and Sangha, printing sutras, helping the needy, and so on.
These good deeds will
help me to attain additional good karma, and further assist me in arriving at
the Pure Land. Most important is for my family to sincerely chant “Amitabha
buddha.”
In order for me to benefit the most and to peacefully arrive
at the Sukhavati, the above points must be followed.
This will not only benefit me but all those involved as
well. In this manner, I wish for everyone to learn and to believe in Buddhism.
Thus, everyone can arrive at Sukhavati, as well.
Amitabha Buddha to all.
These directions express my legal right to request or refuse
treatment.
Therefore, I expect my family, doctor, and all those
concerned with my care to regard themselves as legally and morally bound to act
in accord with my wishes.
Signed
Date
WITNESS:
I declare that the
person who signed this document, or asked another to sign this document on his
or her behalf, did so in my presence and that he or she appears to be of sound
mind and free of duress or undue influence.
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